

If you had to imagine your perfect summer day, what would it entail? Maybe a chill beach day or spontaneous rooftop moment? No matter the scene, there’s nothing like enjoying a refreshing and light cocktail to complete your summer vibes.
The Aperol Spritz has gained recent popularity as a social and celebratory drink. With its vibrant orange hue and low alcohol content, this classic beverage creates a crisp and thirst-quenching experience for any occasion.
How To Make The Classic Aperol Spritz
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If you’ve never had the chance to see what all the hype around this drink is about, it all comes down to the spritz’s signature ingredient, Aperol, an Italian liqueur known for its bitter orange flavor. Its bittersweet taste complements perfectly when combined with Prosecco and a splash of soda water, which adds a touch of sweetness and further lightens the drink.
This harmonious combination appeals to a wide range of palates and just might make you move your margaritas aside to make room for it in the next round.
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Sharing an Aperol Spritz with friends or loved ones creates a festive atmosphere, making it an ideal choice for summer parties or casual get-togethers. And if you’re looking to take your summer drink menu up a few notches, we’ve dropped the perfect recipe for your to recreate the classic Aperol Spritz on your own!
Classic Aperol Spritz Recipe
Here’s what you’ll need:
- 3 parts Prosecco (chilled)
- 2 parts Aperol liquer
- 1 splash of soda water
- Ice cubes
- Orange slice (for garnish)
Instructions:
- Take a large wine glass and fill it with ice cubes.
- Pour 3 parts of chilled Prosecco into the glass.
- Add 2 parts of Aperol to the glass.
- Give the mixture a gentle stir with a long spoon or a cocktail stirrer to combine the Prosecco and Aperol.
- Add a splash of soda water to the glass. This helps to lighten the cocktail and adds a refreshing fizziness.
- Garnish your Aperol Spritz with an orange slice.
- Sip responsibility!
For a citrusy twist, substitute the Aperol with Limoncello, or create a sweet tropical Spritz perfect for the beach by replacing the soda water with pineapple juice and lime juice.
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Devale Ellis On Being A Provider, Marriage Growth & Redefining Fatherhood
In this candid episode of the xoMAN podcast, host Kiara Walker talked with Devale Ellis, actor, social media personality, and star of Zatima, about modern masculinity, learning to be a better husband, emotional presence in marriage, fatherhood for Black men, and leading by example.
“I Wasn’t Present Emotionally”: Devale Ellis on Marriage Growth
Devale Ellis On Learning He Was a ‘Bad Husband’
Ellis grew up believing that a man should prioritize providing for his family. “I know this may come off as misogynistic, but I feel like it’s my responsibility as a man to pay for everything,” he said, emphasizing the wise guidance passed down by his father. However, five years into his marriage to long-time partner Khadeen Ellis, he realized provision wasn’t just financial.
“I was a bad husband because I wasn’t present emotionally… I wasn’t concerned about what she needed outside of the resources.”
Once he shifted his mindset, his marriage improved. “In me trying to be of service to her, I learned that me being of service created a woman who is now willing to be of service to me.”
On Redefining Masculinity and Fatherhood
For Ellis, “being a man is about being consistent.” As a father of four, he sees parenthood as a chance to reshape the future.
“Children give you another chance at life. I have four different opportunities right now to do my life all over again.”
He also works to uplift young Black men, reinforcing their worth in a world that often undermines them. His values extend to his career—Ellis refuses to play roles that involve domestic violence or sexual assault.
On Marriage, Family Planning, and Writing His Story
After his wife’s postpartum preeclampsia, Ellis chose a vasectomy over her taking hormonal birth control, further proving his commitment to their partnership. He and Khadeen share their journey in We Over Me, and his next book, Raising Kings: How Fatherhood Saved Me From Myself, is on the way.
Through honesty and growth, Devale Ellis challenges traditional ideas of masculinity, making his story one that resonates deeply with millennial women.
For the xoMAN podcast, host Kiara Walker peels back the layers of masculinity with candid conversations that challenge stereotypes and celebrate vulnerability. Real men. Real stories. Real talk.
Want more real talk from xoMAN? Catch the full audio episodes every Tuesday on Spotify and Apple Podcasts, and don’t miss the full video drops every Wednesday on YouTube. Hit follow, subscribe, and stay tapped in.
Featured image by YouTube/xoNecole
Devale Ellis On Being A Provider, Marriage Growth & Redefining Fatherhood
In this candid episode of the xoMAN podcast, host Kiara Walker talked with Devale Ellis, actor, social media personality, and star of Zatima, about modern masculinity, learning to be a better husband, emotional presence in marriage, fatherhood for Black men, and leading by example.
“I Wasn’t Present Emotionally”: Devale Ellis on Marriage Growth
Devale Ellis On Learning He Was a ‘Bad Husband’
Ellis grew up believing that a man should prioritize providing for his family. “I know this may come off as misogynistic, but I feel like it’s my responsibility as a man to pay for everything,” he said, emphasizing the wise guidance passed down by his father. However, five years into his marriage to long-time partner Khadeen Ellis, he realized provision wasn’t just financial.
“I was a bad husband because I wasn’t present emotionally… I wasn’t concerned about what she needed outside of the resources.”
Once he shifted his mindset, his marriage improved. “In me trying to be of service to her, I learned that me being of service created a woman who is now willing to be of service to me.”
On Redefining Masculinity and Fatherhood
For Ellis, “being a man is about being consistent.” As a father of four, he sees parenthood as a chance to reshape the future.
“Children give you another chance at life. I have four different opportunities right now to do my life all over again.”
He also works to uplift young Black men, reinforcing their worth in a world that often undermines them. His values extend to his career—Ellis refuses to play roles that involve domestic violence or sexual assault.
On Marriage, Family Planning, and Writing His Story
After his wife’s postpartum preeclampsia, Ellis chose a vasectomy over her taking hormonal birth control, further proving his commitment to their partnership. He and Khadeen share their journey in We Over Me, and his next book, Raising Kings: How Fatherhood Saved Me From Myself, is on the way.
Through honesty and growth, Devale Ellis challenges traditional ideas of masculinity, making his story one that resonates deeply with millennial women.
For the xoMAN podcast, host Kiara Walker peels back the layers of masculinity with candid conversations that challenge stereotypes and celebrate vulnerability. Real men. Real stories. Real talk.
Want more real talk from xoMAN? Catch the full audio episodes every Tuesday on Spotify and Apple Podcasts, and don’t miss the full video drops every Wednesday on YouTube. Hit follow, subscribe, and stay tapped in.
Featured image by YouTube/xoNecole