
These Not-So-Everyday Earrings Prove Hoops Don't Have To Be Big To Make A Statement

I have no recollection of getting my ears pierced for the first time, however, I do recall being drawn to subtle yet chic earrings to be worn with my day-to-day outfits even as a young girl. As I gradually moved away from the sparkly studs sold at my local Claire's, I discovered my now never-ending love for hoop earrings and the need to pair them with almost every ensemble for every occasion.
From large to small, the circumference of my hoop choice typically depends on the mood I'm in for the day and my desired aesthetic, however with most of the country still reeling from the effects of COVID-19, wearing extra large statement earrings feels a bit out of place in our current climate. Overall fashion has gotten a bit more cozy-comfortable with less of a need for over-the-top pieces, instead, dainty earrings that are lightweight and perfectly paired with everyday effortless looks while still noticeably chic are first on my priority list.
Like most, I can find an assortment of hoop earrings throughout my jewelry box, however, I am currently obsessed with finding small to medium-sized options ranging in different shapes, colors, designs, and textures creatively designed with artistic expression in mind. Check out these not-so-basic everyday casual hoop earrings to add to your jewelry collection before they're gone!
1. Spiked Hoops
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These 14k gold spiked hoops are an absolute treasure. Edgy and fun, these mid-sized hoops are Natalie McMillan's signature design. Created to last a lifetime, these are ideal for sensitive ears as well those who value handcrafted one of a kind styles. Pair with an all-white ensemble so as to not take away from these small but mighty hoop earrings.
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2. Ivory Hoops
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As much as I love gold and silver hoop earrings, ivory is the perfect alternative to the common metals we've grown accustomed to. Perfectly paired with light colors and earth tones, these hoops are perfect to transition from summer to fall. I also love the duality in design, allowing for both casual and sophisticated outfit options.
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3. Vintage Mini Chain Link Hoops
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One of my favorite pastimes is shopping for vintage jewelry as nothing compares in style, design, and durability. With a classic chain link design, these mini hoop earrings are a staple that can be worn for years to come. Tiny yet chic, it's the subtle details that count. Pair with absolutely anything and they're an instant match.
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4. 80's Vintage Hoops
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Vintage is always in, but there's room for an updated modern spin on a classic. Burgundy Bay is an online boutique specializing in clothing trends and unique styles for fashion lovers everywhere. I love that I can wear this style with a silky top and jeans for a cute and casual slay or even with biker shorts or sweats for a fun streetwear type of vibe. These are definitely a style to have fun with while stretching your everyday outfit combinations.
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5. Colorful Hoops
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I might have mentioned staying away from statement earrings, however these multicolored trimmed hoops are definitely an exception to the rule. Mid-size, brightly pigmented and surprisingly lightweight, these are the perfect feel-good earrings to add to your collection.
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Originally published on September 17, 2020
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Devale Ellis On Being A Provider, Marriage Growth & Redefining Fatherhood
In this candid episode of the xoMAN podcast, host Kiara Walker talked with Devale Ellis, actor, social media personality, and star of Zatima, about modern masculinity, learning to be a better husband, emotional presence in marriage, fatherhood for Black men, and leading by example.
“I Wasn’t Present Emotionally”: Devale Ellis on Marriage Growth
Devale Ellis On Learning He Was a ‘Bad Husband’
Ellis grew up believing that a man should prioritize providing for his family. “I know this may come off as misogynistic, but I feel like it’s my responsibility as a man to pay for everything,” he said, emphasizing the wise guidance passed down by his father. However, five years into his marriage to long-time partner Khadeen Ellis, he realized provision wasn’t just financial.
“I was a bad husband because I wasn’t present emotionally… I wasn’t concerned about what she needed outside of the resources.”
Once he shifted his mindset, his marriage improved. “In me trying to be of service to her, I learned that me being of service created a woman who is now willing to be of service to me.”
On Redefining Masculinity and Fatherhood
For Ellis, “being a man is about being consistent.” As a father of four, he sees parenthood as a chance to reshape the future.
“Children give you another chance at life. I have four different opportunities right now to do my life all over again.”
He also works to uplift young Black men, reinforcing their worth in a world that often undermines them. His values extend to his career—Ellis refuses to play roles that involve domestic violence or sexual assault.
Watch the full episode below:
On Marriage, Family Planning, and Writing His Story
After his wife’s postpartum preeclampsia, Ellis chose a vasectomy over her taking hormonal birth control, further proving his commitment to their partnership. He and Khadeen share their journey in We Over Me, and his next book, Raising Kings: How Fatherhood Saved Me From Myself, is on the way.
Through honesty and growth, Devale Ellis challenges traditional ideas of masculinity, making his story one that resonates deeply with millennial women.
For the xoMAN podcast, host Kiara Walker peels back the layers of masculinity with candid conversations that challenge stereotypes and celebrate vulnerability. Real men. Real stories. Real talk.
Want more real talk from xoMAN? Catch the full audio episodes every Tuesday on Spotify and Apple Podcasts, and don’t miss the full video drops every Wednesday on YouTube. Hit follow, subscribe, and stay tapped in.
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Calling All Lovers: October London, Tamar Braxton & Ro James Deliver A Soulful Serenade
If there was ever a night to pull out your best leather jacket, call up an old flame, and lean into your soft, sultry era, The October Nights: Calling All Lovers tour was it.
Presented by Black Promoters Collective, the show brought an evening of lush vocals, smooth grooves, and unapologetic grown-folks business to Atlanta—with Ro James, Tamar Braxton, and the man of the hour, October London, leading the charge. The energy? Sensual. The vibe? Intoxicating (literally and figuratively—more on that in a minute).
Ro James kicked off the night with his signature raspy vocals and a cool confidence that immediately set the tone. While “Permission” was the undeniable crowd favorite (with couples slow-dancing in their seats and people swaying with their phones in the air), he also dug deeper into his catalog, delivering seductive mid-tempos and moody ballads that reminded us he’s not a one-hit wonder—he’s a whole vibe.
Next up, Tamar Braxton took the stage with diva energy and vocal acrobatics that had the crowd on their feet. Her set was a perfect mix of emotion and edge—songs like “My Man,” “All the Way Home,” and “Love & War” hit every heartstring, but she didn’t stop there.
Tamar tapped into her earlier work, showing her full vocal range and reminding everyone that she’s one of the most powerful voices of her generation. Between tracks, she got personal with the audience, sharing laughs and stories like we were all cousins at the family reunion.
Oh—and in case you missed it: “Braxtons are coming back.” 👀 Consider that a soft launch if we’ve ever heard one.
Then came the velvet king himself: October London.
From the moment he stepped on stage, it felt like time slowed down. Backed by a silky live band and powerhouse background vocalists The Shindellas — Kaso, Stacy, and Tam, October’s set was pure R&B indulgence.
He opened with songs like “She Keeps Calling” and “Make Me Wanna,” blending retro soul with modern sensuality. Every note was intentional, every lyric soaked in emotion.
“Touch On Me” and “3rd Shift” had the crowd in a trance, while “Lovers Interlude” and “You Look Better” brought things to a tender, candlelit close.
And because this is October London we’re talking about—of course, he came with the charm. “If I come down there and sing with you,” he teased one woman in the front row, “you gon’ get pregnant.” The entire room screamed.
He also took a moment to introduce his newest venture—a signature whiskey that he’s currently promoting on tour. Smooth music, smooth vocals, smooth whiskey? A trifecta for the grown and sexy.
To top off the night, there was even a surprise pop-up from Tyrese, sending the crowd into full nostalgic overload.
By the end of the night, it was clear: this wasn’t just a concert—it was a love letter to R&B. The October Nights: Calling All Lovers tour captured the essence of grown-up intimacy, storytelling, and soul. No gimmicks. Just real voices, real feelings, and really good music.
If October London is the future of modern soul, we’re all in.
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